You can do whatever you want.
Personally? I've been married 16 years and while I would marry him again in a heartbeat, there is NO way I would ever have another wedding.
My mom and aunt got into a fistfight over how I was going to wear my veil.
The wedding cake fell apart the night before (it was fixed but ugh.. that stress..).
A stripper attended our reception (very long story as to how a stripper was in attendance with an Elder from my parents church).
The wrong car was decorated during the reception.
My grandfather flat-out refused attend which led to a huge family fight
My father had a tantrum because we wanted bagpipes and he thinks bagpipes are for funerals not weddings.
Oh I could go on and on.....
And my pictures? Well it's been 16 years and I have yet to ever see one of them.
Weddings aren't all that they're cracked up to be. Especially since when my kids haul out the photo album of pictures I do have (everyone mailed me the snapshots they took) all they do is giggle, point and ridicule what the fashion at the time was. /sigh