Ok... Buy the pancake mix that says "complete" on the front of the box... then all you have to do is add water.
You can sour milk by adding vinegar by the way.
1 tbsp. Vinegar to 1 cup milk (whole milk with 1tsp sugar is best)
I love cooking and my butt proves it!
Oh yeah... I was in my late 20's before I could make a grilled cheese... I think it was more to do with the fact that I had the attention span of a gnat and would forget to turn them on time.