Parting ways with A would mean parting ways with M. Though, he's a but perturbed by her at the moment too. I would be much happier without A in my life, but without M, id be lost mentally and emotionally. And probably homeless. And horseless for sure.
He's been a sort of guide for getting out of the situation I was in. My backbone, so to speak. A, is not much more than a selfish lazy cow. But M takes care of her anyhow.
Thank you for your words northern. It is extremely hostile, and it doesnt help my issues any, you are correct. I will work on doing something to help it.