I'm sure your life isn't exactly perfect. This is a speed bump in my life that I am trying to get over with some encouragement. .
Nobody's life is perfect, but you've deliberately made it harder by doing exactly the OPPOSITE of what others have advised for months.
You were advised NOT to get any more horses yet you said, 'Too bad, I'm getting them anyway, even though all of you think it's a bad idea.'
You don't want encouragement, you want approval and absolution. So sorry, but you're not getting it from me.
It's alot harder than it sounds to just get up and walk away from someone who has been in my life for the past 4 years.
it's hard. Anything worth doing is going to take some actual effort, but by your own admission he's jealous, controlling, and has alienated you from friends and family.
You may think you love him, but I could never love someone who treated me so shabbily. Once you find some self respect, you'll realize it too.
I respect your opinion, but I no longer want to hear about the rights and wrongs for my horses.
Too bad, because your animals are my biggest concern, right behind you being found dead in a dumpster somewhere because this man you 'love so much' snaps and kills you when he finds out you don't want to be controlled any longer.
For better or worse, you took on responsibility for the lives and well being of your animals. They're part of this equation whether or not you want to admit that, and dumping them at your uncle's place doesn't exactly scream 'responsible adult' to me.
I'm not surprised you posted this in the Teen Forum even though you're past the teenage years. You just wanted pats, coos, and everyone telling you what you wanted to hear.
I won't be back to this thread. I hope once you finally do
mature, you'll realize all of your problems were self made and you only have yourself to blame. That's how real