My family has a summer cottage on the Lake in Michigan.
It is a beautiful old house frame house, (120 years). It has 5 bedrooms with 2 twin beds in each room. We rent it out, and the twin beds enable the house to sleep more people. It is decorated very nice with painted hardwood floors, but it is a well lived in cottage.
The family has owned the house for 75 years, and I have spent at least two weeks there every summer of my life. I am very sentimental and protective of the house.
I ask different couples up to the house when I go, to spend the week on the beach with my hubby and me.
My question is, if you were a guest of someone at their house would you ever rearrange the furniture so you could move the twin beds together, so you and your partner or spouse could sleep together.
I want my guests to enjoy their stay but this bothers me no end. I try not to take it as an insult to me or my house, but I hate it. It has been done by two different couples on several occasions, and I they are comming up to the house in a couple weeks.
I would never say anything to them, But I was just curious as to weather I am being over sensitive. Also would anyone else move the furniture at someone elses house, and that it's done all the time.
My husband and I have gone to the cottage for the last 20 years together and have never moved the beds.