Originally Posted by kmdstar
If she's not posting and 'trolling', I don't see how her joining is a big deal.
Umm... For me that raises a question about it if there's something he doesn't want you to see there?
Yes, I admit also I've posted some things I perhaps shouldn't have posted for example here but if I had a boyfriend who wanted to join just for a joke (and perhaps check those things), well, forums are public and I wouldn't anyways have any reasons to prevent it because I want to be honest.
Actually I would have been flattered if a guy followed me on some forum
. Even tho it'd be a bit annoying sometimes if I just wanted to share my thoughts without thinking all the time "what does he think about that?".
Anyways, my suggestion is to talk over that.