Things are good. We just got lazy with one another and things started bugging us that we weren't telling one another... I had a complete breakdown and cried like I haven't cried in a long time and things are okay now.
Thanks FGR and Appy, I appreciate it... :) Sometimes you just gotta vent, and need a caring "e-shoulder" to cry on.
I think the past couple of days were a big wake-up call for both of us.
Good to hear that everything is okay now! Talking about stuff is so important it can relieve alot of stress! My husbands hates have "the talk" so we usually have a huge fight every 6 months or so about what was bothering us for the last 6 months! LOL
That kind of how Tom and I are. I always want to talk when he's ready to go to sleep and if I keep talking, I piss him off, and then I cry and all that good stuff. But it doesn't happen often. I'm going to say like the 6 month stuff too.
I'm glad you and Rich are better, JDI. :) Maybe it was just international "guys be a jerk to their girlfriend" day
At least your guys say "can we talk about this later" lol Tom will either tell me to lay down and go to sleep, or he's really tired. And if I keep talking, he'll ignore me. And that upsets me because I get no answer.
We've been good since our little fight though. He even rubbed my back the other night. It made it so much better.
But i've also found that if he wants to go to sleep and i'm not tired, I let the ferrets out and go onto the HF