Pretty much he decided to see me and my sisters after the judge threw him in jail. He has the right to see us every other Saturday. I felt like he wanted to be a part of our lives, and I've always wanted a dad. So we saw him 3 times. On all 3 of those visits we had fun. I got the flu and couldn't see him one weekend. I called him and let him know and he said that he would call the next day to see how we are doing. I said that maybe we could see eachother sometime during the week. I called him, and he wouldn't answer. Then I called him a few days later- no answer. It's been like 3 weeks. I don't know why he won't answer the phone. My mom had talked to him and he was saying how he can see us whenever he wants, and that she has to drive us over there. (Which is not true, because it says that he has to pick us up and drop us off) I heard that whole conversation, because he was like screaming. My mom told him that he can call me anytime. (Which I've told him many times). He has my cell phone number and the home phone number.
A few years ago, I had made an attempt to get him back into our lives. I invited him to my soccer game and he came to it. That's it.
I just am sick of being hurt by him. I used to cry almost every night. I'm sick of calling him and not getting answered. Why can't he be a man and just tell me??
I'm done with him. He doesn't deserve me. I already called another horse stable and they are awesome people. I just want my riding boots back. He's going to give me a hard time.
And please no one tell me to give him another chance. I can't give out anymore.
So what do I do? call him? have my aunt drive me there? I don't know what to do. Should I just have my mom deal with it?
Last edited by wishingforahorse; 03-09-2011 at 06:49 PM.