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        04-21-2014, 12:08 AM
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    Weanling
    what is wrong with me?

    I don't know what is wrong with me lately. My hormones are driving me crazy. I have been thinking about babies for the past two weeks. I don't even like kids, never wanted kids. Now my body is yelling at me to get pregnant. I don't even have a boyfriend, let alone a husband to fix this issue. I don't even want a boyfriend. I keep meeting really sweet men that I like, but for some reason don't want to stick with any of them. I keep making excuses for why they aren't right for me. Stupid reasons. I don't know what is wrong with me. I don't have any friends. I need somebody to talk to, try to get this baby thing to go away. Please, somebody talk to me!
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        04-21-2014, 12:16 AM
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    Green Broke
    Hormones do that. That's what they are designed to do.

    You'll get through it. It's just a normal feeling. If it becomes, or is, a problem that affects your working or other area of your life, make an appointment with your doctor.

    There are meds that will reduce the amount of hormones your body is producing. I don't know what the side effects might be, but if this is something you can't function with, it's worth looking into.
         
        04-21-2014, 12:40 AM
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    Trained
    Your body is telling you to have a kid because you are fertile, like a lush tropical rain forest waiting to germinate a seed, if you will. However you are in no position to bring a new life into this world as in not married to someone who is commited to starting a family, no solid basis for embarking on the most serious job in the world, raising a child ( if done properly!). Stay on birth control until you can do it right and treat the baby fever thing as a passing fancy otherwise it's extremely selfish. Shove those "having a baby" thoughts to the back burner, it's a life changing decision not to be taken lightly.
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        04-21-2014, 12:44 AM
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    Weanling
    It is getting to the point that I am getting depressed about it. Stupid as it sounds. I keep having dreams about being pregnant, when I wake up I just want to cry because it isn't real. It is a little ridiculous. Wish I could just get all that stuff ripped out. My dreams aren't ever about having a kid, just being pregnant. I am trying my hardest to ignore it, I have been fighting depression for awhile and was just getting back to normal.
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        04-21-2014, 01:03 AM
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    Trained
    Get some counseling, this sounds like a bigger problem that oversteps the bounds of some friendly advice on the internet. I would hate to see you in a position of bringing an innocent life into this world and not being able to deal with it. Every baby born should be wanted, loved and anticipated by both people who made it.
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        04-21-2014, 01:12 AM
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    Weanling
    I am definitely not going to go out and get pregnant because of this. I just want these feelings to go away! I was doing great with my depression. Then this came along. My whole life I have been saying I don't want kids.
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        04-21-2014, 01:17 AM
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    Yearling
    Anytime I started feeling like I wanted a baby (life wasn't in the right place for me at the time either), I'd go to my sisters and hang out with my 2 nieces & nephew for a while. The urge would go away right quick.
         
        04-21-2014, 01:18 AM
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    Trained
    I wish I knew something to make those feelings go away for you, I don't :(. If this is consuming you, please get some qualified help, life is just too short to hindered by such things.
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        04-21-2014, 01:22 AM
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    Weanling
    It started two months ago when I was three weeks late. I was freaking out even though it was completely impossible for me to be pregnant. Then when my period came, I was very sad. So weird. I don't like it.
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        04-21-2014, 01:25 AM
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    Weanling
    It's not even like I want a baby. The best way to describe what I'm feeling is like a split personality or something. It is like my hormones are out of control, but my brain knows the difference from what I actually want, and what my natural instincts want.
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