Check all the feed and tack store bulletin boards, and post some yourself. I don't know what internet searches you have done, but alot of people use Craigslist around here-its free, so it doesn't hurt.
I think that you are upset because you don't feel you have options. Perhaps if you did, you would be able to make decisions-unfortunately, most horse care involves compromise, and that is really hard as a horse owner.
Let us know what happened-