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    05-01-2012, 09:00 PM
  #11
Green Broke
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Originally Posted by Nuala    
Before I started training ANY horses he had said that he would pay me. So I am not asking after the fact.
I did knock his hand away when he reached out and if he tries again I will not be so nice.
As for the knife I wouldnt stab him but it usually makes them think twice before acting. However if he does still keep up I wont tolerate it.

Mildot - it is not that I am choosing to ignore it but I can't NOT go there while my horses are still there. I can leave without the mare but my stud and gelding I refuse to. If it happens again I will be calling the cops.
And say what? That some guy is trying to get into your pants? If that was a crime most men would be in jail.

Most trainers get paid before they train the horse.

The mare aside, why would you have to refuse leave your other horses? They are yours, if you leave you automatically take them.
     
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    05-01-2012, 09:28 PM
  #12
Foal
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Originally Posted by natisha    
And say what? That some guy is trying to get into your pants? If that was a crime most men would be in jail.

Most trainers get paid before they train the horse.

The mare aside, why would you have to refuse leave your other horses? They are yours, if you leave you automatically take them.
I can't take them until I have another place for them.
     
    05-01-2012, 09:34 PM
  #13
Trained
It's time to find another place, this guy isn't going to stop and do you really want to hang around a barn with some old sleaze bucket?
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    05-01-2012, 09:35 PM
  #14
Green Broke
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Originally Posted by Nuala    
I can't take them until I have another place for them.
Does this guy have a wife?
     
    05-01-2012, 09:40 PM
  #15
Showing
Invest in some steel toed boots. Trust me it works.

Seriously girl what the heck are you still doing there? Any kind of advancement from a guy that I do not welcome and I will knock that idea WAY out of their head.

Just reading your OP made me creep out beyond belief. If he even went close to my chest with his hand I would slap him so hard he'd be seeing stars. Or went to reach for my zipper I'd kick him in the balls.

Come on.. defend yourself. And get the heck out of there! I'd find a place to just keep them for awhile. Forget about amenities or whatever.. just get them out!
     
    05-01-2012, 09:48 PM
  #16
Yearling
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Originally Posted by Nuala    
He said he'd take money for her so maybe once my fiance gets back we'l go buy her if we can. She's just so far along I'd hate to stop now. I'm the only one she'l let lead her in without putting up a fuss and she actually went after the lady boarder that's trying to start stuff with me because the lady tried to snatch the lead from my hands. I am looking for a place hopefully I can get them out asap.

When it first started it was more joking but I guess now Im going to have to keep my knife on me whenever Im out there just in case.
You're still considering buying a horse from him after he assaulted you?! Are you insane?! I'd get out of there and go to the cops! He can and should be charged. I get wanting your horses out before you do anything and I'd get out ASAP
     
    05-01-2012, 09:56 PM
  #17
Foal
The best course of action would be to have either your fiance, father or a male friend accompany you to the barn at least once, but preferably routinely. Steel toes and a knife are effective deterrents once they come into play, but the situation needs to escalate to a pretty high level of severity to make any use of them. The BO does not respect you, you're not a tenant or a trainer, you're a sexual object he desires. You've shown him that you can be pushed around and bullied already (no offense). It will take a lot to change the perception he has of you, a lot. Just introducing an intimidating, preferably male, presence would go a long way.
     
    05-01-2012, 09:59 PM
  #18
Showing
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Originally Posted by mind    
Just introducing an intimidating, preferably male, presence would go a long way.
Bikers would be my preference. Or grab a marine guard or fireman and lug him along.
     
    05-01-2012, 10:03 PM
  #19
Weanling
If my daughter told me this story, the only presence he'd need to be worried about would be mine......
Tell your dad, don't leave anyting out. I would imagine the problem will be quickly solved.
     
    05-01-2012, 10:08 PM
  #20
Weanling
Reminds me of my T shirt I have " hurt my kid don't worry about her dad its her mom you got to worry about" I would knock his freaking teeth out tell him either hand her the horse or face law suit. Stupid idiot ( putting it nicely) needs to get gelded!
TRR
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