Originally Posted by rascalboy
Ok, so... you have a fiance so I'm assuming you're a grown woman right? But... you want to tell your parents? This just doesn't make much sense. Here's what you do: change barns. Simple as that. If you leave, he's not going to follow you. Crazy, right?
If you're underage and saying 'fiance' because you think it's cooler than 'boyfriend', then tell your parents and then switch barns. There really are other barns out there, believe me.
And I have another idea: avoid the pervert. What a notion! Don't intentionally go by him! If you know he's a creeper, avoid him.
I am engaged to a marine, yes I am a grown woman. Just because I am a grown woman doesn't mean I am shallow enough to not let my family know whats going on, I'm smart enough to know I shouldn't try to handle this on my own. The more people who know and keep an eye out the less he said she said it'l be when I do get out and report him.
Right now I am borrowing my family's cars and renting an apartment from them as it is cheap and we (my fiance and I) are trying to save as much as possible while he is in basic so that we can get the both of us moved once he has his orders.
You obviously don't get that there really aren't barns around here. We live in the middle of ranch country most people have enough to worry about with their horses and cattle to worry about putting up someone else horses. I am looking for another place but at the moment it is either going to be giving up the partial lease and taking them with me or buying a property and spending a small fortune to fly up every couple of months and manage it while I pay someone else to look after my horses that are basically rescues to start with.
I am not idly putting up with it I have 'band together' with two of the other boarders that have had issues with the guy. They are backing me for whatever may happen when we leave. We are also taking pictures of the property because NONE of the horses have been given tetanus shots and the property is kept in such poor conditions Im surprised they haven't been reported before.