03-01-2014, 12:54 PM
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Well, she started texting me like nuts at about 9:30pm last night. First she was saying there was no Board check (I have until the 5th to pay it and it wasn't even the 1st) then insisting a face to face to discuss the situation. I told her with my husbands work schedule it's hard to say a definite day and time because I don't want to get a babysitter. I was then accused of NOT wanting to work things out. I told her that wasn't true I just can't say when my hubby will be home. I really don't want to pay a babysitter for this because I am charged 10 an hour. As it is I'm paying 80 a month extra when you consider it takes at least half an hour to get cin out, 3-4 times a week. That's about 80 bucks right there. She eventually blew up, told me she wasn't texting anymore because it was too unprofessional. As if texting a client at 9:30pm is professional in the first place?
Then this shows up on her friend's FB "I am simply amazed at how much some people live in their own little world and give no thought to how they treat others or make them feel because in their mind their needs are supposed to trump everyone else's." the same time I am texting her. Um, yeah A PERSONS SAFETY TRUMPS SOMEONE ELSED CONVENIENCE!!! Although, it may not have been aimed at me but as she cries on my shoulder and complains about other boarders I am sure that is what happened in regards to ME last night...
I think I found a stable to move to. It's one I didn't know was there and I think one of my friends from my old barn is there so I asked her about it. I know I will cry while moving though. I love my barn, and I may be mad and frustrated with her right now but I like my BO too. She is just "green" to barn management and takes the route of trying to please everyone instead of making safety a priority and setting definite rules.
This morning I sent her a text saying my hubby would be home. I asked if she wanted to meet later today, possibly for lunch/dinner somewhere? I also suggested my house so I don't have to get a sitter and we can discuss and I can make a meal. I said I really want to work this out.
She has not replied.