So I have been boarding my horse in a local boarding facility. I am the only boarder currently which has been great in some aspects. However me and the owner do not get along very well.
Long story short, I was told things before I moved in and I felt very lied to when things didn't happen. I blew it off though because it was local and the price was great. I knew he was being fed and watered and he had shelter.
I moved and now this farm is a good 20 minute drive away. Which is still not too bad. However I started to ride with a friend on my horse. I had her sign all the forms she was suppose to before riding and I had, in writing given her permission to ride MY horse. I was always there when it happened because it was me riding, then cleaning up and giving her a chance to ride. It was giving my horse exercise that I could not and did not want to provide. (I don't really like doing anything faster then a slow trot)
Anyway, I do admit I had done something I shouldn't have. Which I took FULL responsibility for and apologized for. Which was moving a horse. (I was afraid of the horse getting loose.) The owner found out and blew up at me. She also assumed that my friend was a trainer, which is not allowed on the property and I continually repeated she was a friend. She said some really nasty things and was very unprofessional. This woman really hurt my feelings and embarrassed me in front of my friend. She said some things in a very nasty manner and was very rude to my friend. She even insulted me. She then proceeded and called someone and started talking bad about me.. IN FRONT of me and my friend.
I am really not sure if I should stay here or move my horse to another facility to be honest. The only place I have found that I really like is about an hour away. They offer a lot more at the same price. It's just the distance is what makes me wonder if I should put up with what I have or just move him.
I guess what I am asking is would you move your horse if you felt disrespected and embarrassed?
Note: A lot of the boarding facilities that are closer do not provide pasture board which my horse prefers and their rates are more then what I would like to spend.. or I probably would.