It was in the same conversation but the insult had nothing to do with what I had done. Which was moving a horse without permission. I said I was very sorry and I understood why she was mad. I was just very afraid the horse was going to get into the barn, where it could also bolt out to the street.
I did what I did for good means but I should have asked and I admit that.
However she went on disrespecting me. Now, many can not relate but it does truly hurt my feelings. I am hard of hearing and she knew this from day one. She actually started to yell at me from across the field, which she knew I could barely see what she was saying. After I got closer she continued in the same tone and loudness and said some very nasty things about me. Along the lines of, I complain too much and that I was a liar. This of course was all done in front of my friend who was on my horse at the time. Like I previously mentioned she started assuming things and kept on with that even after I explained the situation.
Let us skip forward to that night. Some things were said and done that shouldn't have been that day. I then got an e-mail from the owner that contradicted everything she had said to me prior. I am upset about what happened and really I don't need the stress.
I broke a rule and she had every right to get mad and correct me. However it was unprofessional to say nasty things to me, especially in front of others. There were many other ways to say the things that she had said. There were other options for her to take. Instead she insulted, embarrassed, and disrespected me.
On top of all of this, which makes my skin boil is.. directly after doing all this she continued to bad mouth me on her phone...in front of both me and my friend.