It seems very odd to post for advice about this on the internet....but here it goes....
A couple of months ago I decided to purchase a couple of horses....did my research on a boarding facility and decided on small family owned barn. The BO is more than reasonable and just a genuinely nice person. And the barn/arenas are spectacular.
There are only a handful of boarders and really I am the Only boarder who rides regularly.
Anyway....the BO is an avid rider/trainer....obviously rode daily before I even came along. So naturally. ...when I DID come along...we spent some time riding together....in the arena...on trails...etc.
At first his wife rode with us (Actually him) pretty often. She is a super sweet lady but I think she primarily rides bc that is HIS thing....not necessarily hers.
Anyway....the past few weeks he is texting me all the time....going way overboard in accomodating me and my horses....anything I mention horse related shows up as a "gift" the next day....
I REALLY like this man....as a person. And if he werent married I might even consider dating him. But he IS married and all this attention is really making me uncomfortable. I don't want to change barns but things are starting to get uncomfortable.
How do I solve this tactfully?? And I am NOT a homewrecker. I have been nothing but kind....but I have NOT been flirtatious in ANY way.
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