I suspect someone is riding my horse? - Page 4
 
 

       The Horse Forum > Barns, Boarding, and Farms > Horse Boarding

I suspect someone is riding my horse?

This is a discussion on I suspect someone is riding my horse? within the Horse Boarding forums, part of the Barns, Boarding, and Farms category

    Like Tree1064Likes

     
    LinkBack Thread Tools
        01-24-2014, 08:10 AM
      #31
    Yearling
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by KigerQueen    
    Id flip my lid if someone was riding my mare without me there. She too much horse for most people. I have a 8 year old ride her on the lung-line but that's it, im in control and its at a walk. I will NOT be liable for some idiot getting hurt on my horse, and ill be going away for man slaughter if my horse ended up hurt.

    Go with the koolaid idea. Its not like anyone will see the bottom of your pad. And it might not be on a pad but someones pants (she could be hopping on bareback).
    Stitch can be too much horse for people too! Ugh, I didn't think of the liability. Could I legally get in trouble for that? If she was doing it behind my back?
    Posted via Mobile Device
         
    Sponsored Links
    Advertisement
     
        01-24-2014, 08:13 AM
      #32
    Yearling
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by HunterJumperShow    

    When you get the proof, I would defiantly approach her parents about it first as well as the BO. Have you locked up your tack locker yet?
    No :/ because I only saw her briefly yesterday, and I didn't have he chance to ask her to move her stuff out of it yet, because before all this crap happened I had been sharing it with her until she got her own. (6 months later she still doesn't have her own)
    Posted via Mobile Device
         
        01-24-2014, 08:14 AM
      #33
    Yearling
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Tracer    
    I'm the sort of person that is happy to let others ride my horse - but NEVER without my permission!

    You're dealing with it well so far. The Kool-Aid is a good idea - maybe you could take your pad home under the premise of it being cleaned? Though I would think she'd notice the crystals when grooming, so maybe not the best idea.

    A camera seems a little extreme to me, but it might be necessary. Hopefully your BO will catch her in the act before any of that is necessary. If your BO can be the one to confront her (I'm sure she doesn't condone riding other peoples horses without permission), it will be a lot easier on you!
    Ohh, I didn't think about her noticing crystals when grooming. Bummer, and yes I really hope the BO catches her she would be flaming mad.
    Posted via Mobile Device
         
        01-24-2014, 08:27 AM
      #34
    Started
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Tracer    
    I'm the sort of person that is happy to let others ride my horse - but NEVER without my permission!

    You're dealing with it well so far. The Kool-Aid is a good idea - maybe you could take your pad home under the premise of it being cleaned? Though I would think she'd notice the crystals when grooming, so maybe not the best idea.

    A camera seems a little extreme to me, but it might be necessary. Hopefully your BO will catch her in the act before any of that is necessary. If your BO can be the one to confront her (I'm sure she doesn't condone riding other peoples horses without permission), it will be a lot easier on you!
    My guess would be that if she's jumping on in the pasture that she probably isn't even really grooming the horse :/

    Since you say she interacts with her more than normal (going out to her pasture "just to pet her", catching her out of the pasture, etc) I might find a way to stop that as well. Don't want her to be tempted, you know? Tell the boarders (including the girl) about the issue, and that you do not want anyone touching her without your permission. This way you wouldn't have to call her out in particular, but if someone sees her out there with him then they'll know that something isn't right. Maybe it sounds paranoid, but if someone is ballsy enough to ride without your permission then they may just become more sneaky about it.
    KigerQueen and AFull99 like this.
         
        01-24-2014, 08:40 AM
      #35
    Trained
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Rideordie112    
    No :/ because I only saw her briefly yesterday, and I didn't have he chance to ask her to move her stuff out of it yet, because before all this crap happened I had been sharing it with her until she got her own. (6 months later she still doesn't have her own)
    Posted via Mobile Device
    I'd set her stuff out of my tack locker and put a lock on it. Tell her that when you agreed to allow her to share that it was for a short length of time until she could get her own locker, for instance a month, and that she has overstayed her welcome.
         
        01-24-2014, 09:03 AM
      #36
    Yearling
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Dreamcatcher Arabians    
    I'd set her stuff out of my tack locker and put a lock on it. Tell her that when you agreed to allow her to share that it was for a short length of time until she could get her own locker, for instance a month, and that she has overstayed her welcome.
    That's a good idea, I should do that. I'm just a non confrontational person, and I don't want to be rude, but she has crossed the line. So I will do that today.
    Posted via Mobile Device
         
        01-24-2014, 09:05 AM
      #37
    Yearling
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by DuckDodgers    
    Maybe it sounds paranoid, but if someone is ballsy enough to ride without your permission then they may just become more sneaky about it.
    Great, that's just what I need. Well, I started spreading the word around the barn that I was suspicious, and I know that she heard me.
    So she should be on edge now, I just need to catch her in the act.
    Posted via Mobile Device
         
        01-24-2014, 09:40 AM
      #38
    Green Broke
    Stitch is YOUR horse. Period. If I thought someone was riding my horse, I would be more than furious.

    No one, except the BO, should even be touching him without your written permission. Period. Make it very clear to the BO that no one is to touch him and that no one (except your farrier) has your permission.

    I don't mean this in a derogatory way, but you allowed this girl to share your tack locker and you have allowed her to use your tack. You've "set yourself" up for this in a way, by letting her get away with using your tack.

    I wouldn't let anyone share my tack locker, but in your case, the very instant I suspected someone was using my tack locker, I would send them a text message (so you can document) that I need their stuff out of my locker in 48 hours, or their things will just be set out on the concrete and I will padlock my locker. If no reply, I'd send several more text messages to document.

    Once you've got your tack locked up, I like the Kool Aid idea. Even funnier if she hops on him bareback in the pasture to be sneaky, and she's goes home with a purple butt.

    In your commons area, or on Stitch's stall, I'd post a sign that no one except the BO and your farrier is to handle him (yes, that includes petting) without your written consent.

    A lot of this sounds harsh, yes. But this is YOUR horse we are talking about. Some people need to learn what is NOT theirs because they have no sense of it.

    I also would not confront her about it until you have some sort of video evidence that she is riding him. Although if you post signs that no one is to even touch him, you can at least call her out on that because you have caught her petting him.
         
        01-24-2014, 09:57 AM
      #39
    Foal
    If someone was riding my horse, I would be furious! The only people allowed to ride him are the trainer, me(obviously), and the BO. And he's not enrolled in training anymore so basically just the BO. And even the BO only rides if i'm around. Also, no one takes him out of his field except for me, the trainer, or the BO. People pet him but that's about it. If I found out someone was riding him without my permission, I'd definitely have a long talk with the BO. If they hurt him in any way, I'd probably press charges. My horse is like my child. And he's my property. So no one rides him without permission. I am a short fuse so I'd probably confront her and scream at her and threaten to take her to court. But that's just me.
    Glenknock and KigerQueen like this.
         
        01-24-2014, 10:12 AM
      #40
    Started
    Actually if you use the Kool-Aid idea and she starts grooming or even rubbing your horse, she will get the crystals all over her hand. I am sure, now that you "mentioned" that someone is messing with your horse, she will say" wow, I was petting/grooming your horse and got this stuff all over.. Somebody must have put this on Stitches back. "Guilty"
    Tell her you are locking up YOUR locker without her stuff in it because you don't want to chance spreading any germs around on your stuff to other horses.
    She sounds like the type who you gave an inch to and she is taking more than a mile. She will continue to take advantage of you, your kindness and your horse until you just flat stop it. Hopefully the message you gave about being suspicious will work, if not I would say that I put up small cameras and saw something I will probably be taking to the BO. Let her get worried and maybe she will stop.
    Good luck. I can't imagine how people even get the idea its okay to use another persons horse or tack or equipment without permission. Just amazes me.
         

    Thread Tools

    Similar Threads
    Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
    I know what I suspect, what would you think? Sunnylucy Horse Boarding 15 08-29-2013 10:28 AM
    New horse I suspect worms Qbaby1401 Horse Health 6 11-24-2012 10:21 PM
    Buckskin...would you suspect a white gene too? doubleopi Horse Colors and Genetics 19 09-14-2012 07:04 PM
    Suspect horse is being ridden? Saddlebag Horse Boarding 23 07-09-2012 06:20 PM



    All times are GMT -4. The time now is 02:06 AM.


    Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.5
    Copyright ©2000 - 2014, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
    Search Engine Friendly URLs by vBSEO 3.6.0