Thank you, I do feel good about my descision, had a phone call and text every day and she sent me two pictures of both sides this morning. Were we are we can't let the hors out to graze but he's getting hand grazed every day for an hour with the other mare who is having a hard time gaining weight. It's just way to wet and pretty snowy last couple of weeks.
Like I said I got the bigger picture of her Desiscions and they made more sense of why she was doing them, not excusing her at all but she is young, finding her way, she means well and everyone has to fall once and awhile, not at the expense of my horse but it wasn't a life or death situation (not that'd id ever let it get that far) horse will be horses get hurt, stress out, gain and loose weight, get sore everyone and while. He is doing so much better in just the three days since we had our big talk.
I will keep you updated and with more pictures this weekend.
Thanks for your advice, support and just listening as it was such a rough emotional time last week/end and I am feeling so much better.