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View Poll Results: Should I leave or stay
Leave and stop putting up with her? 4 80.00%
Stay and put up with it cuz i love the barn? 1 20.00%
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post #21 of 37 Old 01-25-2012, 11:17 PM
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Then she doesn't deserve her parents money either.
Interesting that the parents side with the BO though isn't it?
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post #22 of 37 Old 01-25-2012, 11:20 PM
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Well I'm sure this isn't the whole story. The OP is a minor correct? We all thought at that age that things we said were innocent and everyone was out to get us. I'm sure there is heck of alot more to the story. I'm also sure there is a good reason your parents side with the BO
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post #23 of 37 Old 01-25-2012, 11:26 PM
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On that note I know many of my lesson girls who have parents that side with me when they definitely shouldn't. And my trainer too, has people siding with her just because she's the trainer. I find it frustrating when parents always side with me (I teach little kids and beginners now) so whenever that happens I just keep reverting the conversation right back to the kid and ask them to tell them what they think happened.
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post #24 of 37 Old 01-25-2012, 11:27 PM
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I can't get past her (and her friend) feeling they can just go in the BO's house? Sorry-but I don't even do that to my "kids" who live down the street! I call first!

After having a teen daughter I KNOW there is more to the story. It will most likely come out after OP is out on her own......lol

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post #25 of 37 Old 01-25-2012, 11:49 PM
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While I do agree with that franknbeans, I wouldn't let anyone into my house uninvited either, but my trainer has an open door policy for her boarders. Of course I don't know if that extends to this BO, judging by the sounds of things it doesn't, but there's four sides to every story. The girls side, the BOs side, what really happened, and now what the HorseForum THINKS is happening.
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post #26 of 37 Old 01-25-2012, 11:57 PM
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Sorry-"open door policy" or not, I would not EVER walk into someones house. I call it courtesy, and, even tho I often say to people "come over anytime" I DO expect they would let me know they were coming.....knock even? Most of my friends would;t think of just coming in unannounced either. Guess I am getting old....

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post #27 of 37 Old 01-26-2012, 06:02 PM
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Well I hope you didn't do anything to deserve it...
Anyways, I think you should just confront her about it. What's the worst that could happen?
If you don't have the guts to even try, just leave. If you are that worked up about this person, the barn is not even worth it. You don't have to put yourself thru all that..
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I am switching barns.... I can't take it anymore...
So yes I am moving out!
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post #29 of 37 Old 01-26-2012, 06:51 PM
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I am switching barns.... I can't take it anymore...
So yes I am moving out!
have your parents agreed to this? Where will you go?
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post #30 of 37 Old 01-26-2012, 09:10 PM
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I am switching barns.... I can't take it anymore...
So yes I am moving out!
I think that it's so sad that you liked the place and everything, and the owner had to go and ruin the whole experience for you. I hope you find an even better barn.
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