I have been going to this barn for 7 years and it has been fantastic up till this year. The trainer has started being very rude even though I was volunteering to help her and the barns owner talks to my family anyway she wants to and is often rude. But sometimes they are super nice and helpful ( mostly when my parents are with me) I have a horse boarded there who was a stud for a long time and can only get turned out with certain horses but most days he is in his stall all day which breaks my heart. He is tearing down his stall and its not like I can be in control of there scheule ( that's why I board) . I am also concerned about what would happen to the horse there that only I ride. She is to wild for inexpeirenced riders and expeirenced have there own horse to ride. I am worried they would sell her and I wouldnt be able to live with myself if she went somewhere bad. Also I have so many friends I would miss incredibly a lot! I cannot decide wether to toighen up and deal with it or to loose my friends and the mare. I cannot imagine life without this barn but there is so many other barns out there. I am scared I will loose friendships becuase that's the only thing keeping me at this barn. I also feel selfish though having my extremely corious horse stuck in a stall. I have no idea what to dp.
Leave.. like yesterday.
There is no reason to put up with rudeness nor with them not providing adequate turn out.
It's care that you are concerned about the mare, but she is not your horse, and, unless you purchase her, then you can't guarantee what happens to her whether you stay or go. Your priority should be your horse, who is obviously not happy there.
To the other poster having similar issues.. post where you are, maybe someone knows of a place!! Good lord. I'd have had my bags packed yesterday. That is just horrible!!