db- Thank you! :) I appreciate what you've said.
demonwolf- I believe I am quite good at putting myself in "hypothetical shoes." I'm not saying I can completely go there, but I can understand what it would be like, to an extent...but I get what you're saying. :P You can only go so far as to hypothetical situations -- and in reality, it's usually different.
EliRose- no, you didn't offend me. :)
CandyCanes- I will be sure that read that, soon (just not now because I have to go, lol)
TessaMay- "It seems like all you want to see is the fun of having a baby, so in your mind everyone else must be wrong and not understand." I don't know if this is meant to be derogatory or not, but I just want to know that is not what I think. I understand what everybody is trying to say, and I know you all aren't wrong. I believe some of the points brought up may not be relevant or matter in my case (SOME, not all), but I don't disregard them completely, even if it sounds like it.
To all- I will be speaking to a vet about this before I make a decision. I appreciate the criticism, because it honestly will help (even if some of it is completely irrelevant -- I understand that I only have one horse, but Destiny has as good a chance at having no complications as any other horse, and a fear of losing her, as sad as it may be, would not change my mind). And just for the record, nobody is offending me for any reason whatsoever. I don't scare easily, and it's even harder to offend me. ;)