But she, can hurt and kill you. You can't be a pushover or softy around a horse. Go out there and act like a stingy bitch... Like 'get the hell out of my space!' Make her move just because you can.' If she's in the pasture and you see her make a Move to a patch of grass go Chase her away like, that's your patch of grass . I do random things around my horses just to keep them thinking and keep them on their toes.