Marlea. I fail to see why you can't follow simple direction that will only benefit you as a younger member. You have the chance to speak to Mike about your concerns, and yet you sort of refuse to? Why are you prolonging the issue after an alternative option is available for you to resolve it? I always see that you want to prove to other members that you are mature, but you have to convince yourself that you are mature first.
It is a shame that you are limited, and I feel sorry. But there are ways around it that have been spoken for. Sometimes you have to learn to accept the "unfair". But be thankful that you can still be part of the forum.
"All we see or seem, is but a dream within a dream..."