I'm a little thrown off. Most of the, actually all of them so far, have called for a little bit of any human hair conditioner. Now, how is it safe and healthy to leave in conditioner in ANYONEs hair? I wouldn't leave it in my hair (unless it was proff. Leave in conditioner). I would think that it would leave a thick coat over the top and eventually dry it out. The reason i'm looking for homemade is because I just bought show sheen and didn't like the reviews I read on it. Looks like I will only use it right before a show... Does anyone have any easy homemade HEALTHY and SAFE remedies? And opinions on this please!