We don't really have any ttrouble getting our boy to let his "thing" out....he does it every time we groom him....but if you really want it out, scratch his butt. Seriously, this is gross, but when you scratch his butt, it really comes out of hiding...and sometimes he'll even move "it"...you know ... I have no idea why he is such a pervert. He is gelded...
We put socks on our hands which work as washcloths
and use warm water to remove the various things he's usually got stuck on there. I don't use soap generally for fear of irritating "it".
What kind of soap/cleaner do you all use? Anyone ever use excalibur?