Thank you Spastic. I admit I was wrong to take the other off I was just upset and thought she would have been home. I won't do it again of course, unless there is another issue with one of them being stuck or in danger.
I did a good job of making myself look like I would though LOL. I am just really against leaving them on. But, I'm going to try to find an oppertunity to talk to her and see if we can come to some sort of comon ground. I don't like to be fighting with them, and this may be a good time to just address all of our issues. At least then we will both know where we stand with eachother.