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        06-09-2013, 08:23 PM
      #31
    Green Broke
    Horses cost $$$, that's why. And don't like the actions of the minority reflect the majority. Owning a horse is a huge, h you g e, H you G E responsibility and commitment! Some horse and rider combos don't mesh, simple as that. Would you rather see a horse or ride become physically or emotionally hurt? I'd rather that horse be passed on to capable hand. Finances change! My dogs yearly upkeep, roughly $500. Horses eat up $500 a month for a SNACK, then some, especially if you have the accident prone type! Board by me is easily $700+. Now, lets say I come of hard times. Do you think I'm going to keep around a pet that costs me $5,000+ a year, no way. I'm not saying I'm going to dump them at the nearest open lot, I'd take as much time as I needed to sell to a responsible buy (to the best of my ability). Also, believe it or not, people DO out grow horses! If you want to move up to larger jumps and your horse can't handle it why not sell it to someone who is happy jumping that height?

    All my horses will either be retired with me (if I have the room), sold/given to trust worthy people, or if need be, given the pink juice. Personally, I feel the need to "take care of" the horses who took care of me. Especially those that have special sentimental meaning.

    What your wife should be outraged by is irresponsible owners and breeders. Not people who buy and sell responsibily. There are many people, referred to as "back yard breeders" or BYBs, that breed their pint-abianmares to their neighbors stallion quarter-walka-loosa because he has spots and they think their mare is cuteeeeeee. Well, the baby comes out and the owner swears up and down they would never ever get ride of it! Well, she spoiled the heck out of him, because she doesn't want him to hate her of course, and before you know it his is a monster. She posts a thread on horse form to help solve her problems because A) she doesn't want to discipline him B) She wants to do ALL the training herself and C) she doesn't have any money to hire someone to help her. Now here comes college, she wants to go away and she does. Well, her parents are not going to keep two expensive mouths to feed while she is gone for four years. Lets say they lease the mare to a nice family for the next for years. Now, the little stud (because you KNOW she didn't have time/money or felt bad for gelding him)... obviously no one wants him... he is a mix that doesn't really excel at anything, he's built pretty funny and worst of all he is a terrorist! Oh yeah, and a stud. Guess where that horse goes? Some sneaky "trainer" comes around and says he will train him up into something real nice! After all, he has been looking for a reliable trail horse. This horse just got fast tracked right to the auction house and might end up being rescued because some irresponsible breeder/trainer wanted to have something with spots and a piece of her mare!
         
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        06-09-2013, 08:55 PM
      #32
    Green Broke
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by tinaev    
    I'm 90% leaning towards the OP just being a troll.
    Crap-crap-crap --- I didn't even think of that
         
        06-09-2013, 09:25 PM
      #33
    Showing
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by walkinthewalk    
    Crap-crap-crap --- I didn't even think of that
    I did, especially since they made one first, inflammatory post and haven't been back. I'm also leaning toward 'he' actually being a teenage girl.
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        06-09-2013, 09:26 PM
      #34
    Yearling
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by walkinthewalk    
    Crap-crap-crap --- I didn't even think of that
    TBH that was a thought.

    Also...he did get thoroughly chewed. I don't think he thought it through logically before posting, he just vented and got his butt handed to him. He may not want to come back....
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        06-10-2013, 02:54 AM
      #35
    Started
    It's entirely possible that OP, being new to horses, assumed most horse owners feel the same way his wife does and when he discovered they don't decided to tuck tail and run. I didn't smell troll initially, just naive...
         
        06-10-2013, 05:04 PM
      #36
    Foal
    Right, sorry if I have caused offence, not my intention. Long time since I was a teenager and not a female one!
    I just told my wife what I had posted and she thinks I may have upset some horse lovers and again, I apologise.
    I appreciate some of the comments and was probably a bit blinkered when I typed it.
    It was not long after an abandoned horse had been put down, so probably a raw time.
    Won't happen again.
         
        06-10-2013, 05:26 PM
      #37
    Super Moderator
    Thank you for coming back and addressing this Windmill john.

    Please do stick around to read and learn from the site. I promise, you will enjoy it and learn tons!
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        06-10-2013, 05:30 PM
      #38
    Green Broke
    I agree, thank you. One thing to realize is that rehoming and abandoning are completely different. Rehoming is completely acceptable but neglecting and abandoning is not.
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        06-11-2013, 12:38 PM
      #39
    Super Moderator
    Welcome to the forum Windmill. I must say you did make an impression. But, going beyond the angst of your initial post, Everyone can see your passion about horses. For that, you are applauded.

    You will find this a VERY diverse forum with many different approaches to horse ownership. I find that I don't agree with everyone, but it is not my place to judge most of the time. I often have to sit on my hands for a while before posting.

    I do hope you will stay and participate here!
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