First Thank you all who replied with suggestions, I appritate it.
I have tried applesauce (this morning) and molasses (tried it before) she wont touch the grain when it's in the feed which suprises me sence I have used the molasses when I have had to give meds to any of my horses. I also feed soaked beetpulp and alfalfa as part of all my horses feed (I'm just so used to saying grain because I feed it with the beet/alf that I just say grain when I talk about feeding sorry about that) . I tried increasing hers, well duh me, if she doesn't eat whats there she sure is'nt going to eat the extra. (I do have my bright moments :) ). I have 3 other horses in the barn with her and I have tried keeping them in and turning them out., niether works. I can't leave her food bucket up when she is out because the other horses will eat it, but I can't leave her in or she kicks her stall and dumps her water bucket.(very frustrating) As for the worms when we first bought her we power packed her at the breeders and agian when she came to our barn last year, she is now on a regular worming schedule and as part of her vet check she was checked for worms, all clear for that. I honestly don't know what to do. I thank you all agian, and suggestions will be taken with much gratitiude. I have run out of ideas and any and all from you guys are very much welcomed. By the way I love the pics