Originally Posted by Alwaysbehind
Kmac, since you have nothing to hide is it OK for me to put a recording device on your phone with out you knowing? Or how about me installing cameras in your house with out you knowing?
I see nothing wrong with a boarder discussing life with the BO and them working together to catch an idiot. But it is wrong for a boarder to install cameras at a barn owned by someone else with out their permission.
If you do not trust your barn owner that much that you need to sneak around and install cameras on the sly then it is time to change barns.
The only reason I didn't trust anyone is because of personal experiences. My family has never been nice to me and my dad used to do things that I'll never forgive him for. He has changed a lot but I am unable to trust things first before seeing how they work and what goes on. I shared this with the BO owner and she understood. Once something like that has happened to you it's hard to trust anything again. I did not do it to "spy" on anyone but I did it to know that I can trust. I never did say that it was right to install anything to another person's barn with their permission and I'm not that kind of person. If they tell me no then I'll manage without it. I'm kind of hurt that you'd think that I was that kind of person before you knew more about my history.