Hmmm....saw this tangent coming....
Sillyhorses, kudos to you for handling the situation professionally as best you were able to.
Kudos to all who provided beneficial information, alternative perspectives, and wise guidance to silly in her time of need, with a tough situation in hand.
Sometimes, a little feedback to help us break past our initial perspectives is a good thing, as it seems to have been in this instance.
While there have been some digressions into borderline personal attacks, overall, the information in this thread bears a bit of wisdom to be retained.
In the interests of all the members of this fine forum, and in my own small part to help keep it that way, sillyhorses may want to seriously consider closing this thread.
The situation has run it's course, and is complete if my understanding is accurate.
Let's let this thread achieve the same level of completion as it appears that little good can be had with the direction we're headed here.
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