Well, apparently Mickey backed out of buying the farm, and the other horses are gone. So he wont have a horse to swap, but BIL doesnt want this guy telling people he stole this horse, so he's contacting the 3rd party again tomorrow, b/c calls werent answered today.
Day Mares, thanks for understanding! And the trainer that is helping me with my horse has known me since I was born (her horse was the first one I ever rode-when I was 5!) and my mother knew her when she was born! So she helps me withme horse. She is great too. She doesnt want to do it for me, and she only helps when I need it! But it seemed like when she was there helping me with my horse that they inlaws would try to get her to start theirs, which she wont do for free. She's doing it for me b/c we're good friends.
MIL's new horse choke the other day, I looked it up, found out it was an emergency situation, told her to call the vet or he may die. She said she didnt have the money, so my hubby paid for it. The evryone came outside and stopped listening to me again after that. A lady on the thread I posted about the choking itself said my priorities were questionable (and hoped my family was in good health), b/c I left when the vet was on its way to ride and dress my horses foot. She is at my friends property so we can work on them together until the last show in two weeks. That really ticked me off b/c I am one of those people that never do anything for myself, and when I do I feel guilty. And she made me feel worse. But at the same time I got ticked, b/c if she did know me she would understand. They wouldnt even help me lead the freaking horse, and all that could be done anyway was to wait for the vet at that point. I couldnt help there and no one seemed to want it anyway, and my mare needs looked after too!