I am so, so very sorry for you loss. That's absolutely tragic. I can't even imagine the pain you must be feeling.
I really wish there was an "Angie's List" for the horse industry. You can find reviews on almost any other business by googling or through the BBB. But, it seems that so many people fear being blasted when sharing negative experiences with providers of horse services. We want references and reviews on child care services, why is it so taboo to have reviews on horse services?
I've spent most of my life riding horses. The rest I've just wasted.