First thing I would do is have her checked for ulcers, because that is a common cause of not eating as much. Then I would up the amount of hay she gets. I don't know her work load, but I would not give her anymore grain than you already are. I personally would recommend farnum weight builder over cool calories, because I am not thrilled with the results I've seen of the horses I know who are fed cool calories, but I personally have had great results with the farnum weight builder. Take that with a grain of salt though, as I haven't put any of my horses on cool calories, so not know what the other people were feeding in addition to that gives me a narrow view of results if you can understand that lol. Definitely if you can find rice bran, I would give that with the cool calories, and some canola oil.