I don't think anyone is trying to run anyone off. Stud ownership seems to be one of those "hot button" issues.
I apologize if I came across with that "tone". It wasnt intended. I have just seen too many bad situations over the years with inexperienced stallion owners. I am all for learning and seeking help, but it should be done before you chance putting yourself in a bad situation. I don't think a web forum is the best place to learn about owning/handling stallions. Typed words can't give the hands on needed. Seek out a local breeder and observe, ask tons of questions and get some hands on knowledge with an experienced stallion owner.
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