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post #1 of 16 Old 08-02-2011, 10:34 PM Thread Starter
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Have you ever been in this kind of situation?

I now this doesnt have anything to do with this but I just don't now.
Ok, So I am just really depressed right now. But here are the reasons why, I feel like my parents don't love me as much as my sisters. I am the youngest one to. I am only 12. But my parents are split up, But I see both of them all the time. I live with my mom. Well 2 nights ago I was at my dads, And before bedtime he came in the room were me and my sisters were, They are 18 and 15. And he walked right past me and gave them kisses and hugs and said good night. And than all he did to me was say good night. And he always does this to me. He loves on my sisters but acts like I'm not there. And when I try to talk to him he's to buisy or just doesnt feel like talking. But when I do get the chance to talk he's always so angry with me. And I just don't no why. Have I done something wrong?, But my mom treats me the same way my dad does. And my sisters aren't very friendly to me either. They only person that really talked to me and stuff was my grandmother. But she just passed away. And Now I feel so lonely and not loved anymore. I cry myself to sleep alot... Maybe my mom and dad didnt want a 3rd kid... I wish I was little again. When they did love me more. But please tell me if you have been in this situation. And also me and my parents have never really gotten into fights. So I don't now why they wouldnt like me as much as my sisters. But please tell me if you guys have been in this situation. Please and thank you.
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post #2 of 16 Old 08-02-2011, 10:50 PM
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I know how you feel, when my parents split up and my dad and his gf had a baby. I hated my step mom it was almost like she was trying to turn my dad against me and it seemed to work. She once accused me of stealing from her and my dad believed her. The best advise I can give you is try to let them know how you feel, I use to always argue with my step mom and I never tried to talk it out with them then my dad and her split up and I feel like its my fault , him and my mom still get in fights and its like he's mad at me for it.but just try to talk to them about it don't stay quit like I did it just makes you feel worse .
Im so sorry to hear that you feel this way and just know that your not alone
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Thank you alot. I just wish god would let me have my grandmother to talk to, She would love me always. But thank You alot. I just can't find the reason why my dad and mom don't treat me as they treat my sisters.
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I know its not fair at all, have you ever tried to confront your parents about it?
And im sorry to hear about your grandma
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post #5 of 16 Old 08-02-2011, 11:09 PM Thread Starter
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No, I am to scared to talk to them. I am because I am scared they are going to say They don't love me anymore. And if that happened. I don't now what I would do. And thank you.
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No, I am to scared to talk to them. I am because I am scared they are going to say They don't love me anymore. And if that happened. I don't now what I would do. And thank you.

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maybe they don't even realize there doing it? But I know it can be hard to talk to parents im not very close with mine either.
Do you have a close friend you could talk to abou it? It makes it alot better knowing you can talk to someone
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Not really. I am homeschooled. So I only have my horse. I cry with him. But they did buy the horse for my 18 year old sister. But I just cry to him and talk to him. Cause I don't now what else to do.
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Not really. I am homeschooled. So I only have my horse. I cry with him. But they did buy the horse for my 18 year old sister. But I just cry to him and talk to him. Cause I don't now what else to do.

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Not really. I am homeschooled. So I only have my horse. I cry with him. But they did buy the horse for my 18 year old sister. But I just cry to him and talk to him. Cause I don't now what else to do

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