I have to say that I love your Trainer. I had one Trainer like that back when I was around 10 & just starting to learn how to jump, and I will thank her until the day I die. She made me into a tough little rider, and it taught me discipline. It taught me to be focused and to do it right the first time.
Trainers like that are priceless. Yes, she made me cry my first two lessons (I was 10.), but it sure did toughen me up and give me that thick skin you need in riding.
...he's so kissable, huggable, loveable, unbelievable...