I'm not sure how old you are, but if you are younger than her, she just might not listen even though you'd have good advice to give.
I got my draft at 2. We had some issues the first few months then things were great. Then when he hit 4... good grief! It was like the terrible two's for kids. He pulled a lot of the 'you're-not-the-boss-of-me' things.
There are a lot of horses that are too young physically AND mentally to be started. People just want to be riding. I tell those people they need to be buying broke horses and not rush things for the youngin's.