Yes, I know I need to start looking up ALOT more. It's become a bad habit of mine, again. I used to do it all the time and then I stopped and now I am doing it again. I have been working on it though.
That may have been a bad day, I honestly don't remember but the past few times I have rode she has been almost a dream to ride(without the martingale). The only thing is that she listens better to my seat than my legs. But eventually I will need to her listen to my legs also for when I sell her. Also about my leg, that is in the trot and the way her trot is, it makes my leg go forward, also when I am trying to get her to slow down and I have to sit far back(she doesn't always listen very well) it makes my leg go forward but yes, I know I need to work on it. Thanks!