First off, thanks for all the tips.
What I have gotten so far is that I should lengthen my stirrups (which I saw once I watched my video), look where I want to go, work on asking with my leg before using spur (which should be better once I lower the stirrups), when posting I should keep my shoulders back. If I missed anything please post again.
When I ride tomorrow I will work on all those things and try to post another video. As for lowering my stirrups, how much do you think I should lower them? I am used to riding with fairly short stirrups so I don't want to have them too long.
Thanks for the positive comments tinyliny, equiniphile, and Zimpatico, it does great things for my riding when people say I ride good. My goal is to be soft and relaxed. I am a crazy perfectionist to the point of being obsessive so I have to really concentrate on staying relaxed.