It takes courage to put videos out here! I was terrified of what comments I would get when I posted mine. Haha
When you put out something HONESTLY and whether you agree with what you get or not, either ask questions and be open for something you may not have thought of, you will ALWAYS get good patient helpful advice.
It will always go sour when you make excuses, backpeddle or get defensive. I like to help out ( and others too). When we take the time to give our opinion most of us here don't want to walk away thinking "what a waste of time that was".
A thread like this one where the OP provided information to us openly without any expectation did both herself and the members here a great service and all should be congratulated.