Thank you Gemini, I was given other advice (don't piss her off and just let her run the steam out for a couple of days and then get cracking)... I like to be consistent in my training, but since I respect this person, I went on that advice. I talk to her a lot, it helps with my nerves... the area we're riding in currently is where I fell off and shattered my leg, it's taken us a bit to get out there, so we're both on edge, despite me not feeling like I am, I'm sure my body says otherwise! It's been noted by others who have ridden her out there in the past, that she tenses up too, so I'm sure its a bit of us both. She was quite traumatised by the accident.
Thank you for spending time answering this thread, I appreciate it... will ensure to slow her down to the speed that's comfortable for us both! ^_^
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