I'm not sure if this thread belongs in the gaited horse hall of fame or shame.
Collecting her does help. It's really hard to keep her in collection though. She's so hyper; she was an Arab in a former life. She behaves just like a stereotypical Arabian.
Hands low and wide. Easy enough to remember.
I'll get an actual video soon, to see if there's anything else I had do to make her less rough. It's probably me bringing out the worse in her; her owner says she's fairly smooth.