I want your horse!!!!
he's such a great guy. he goes for each fence with the same effort as the last one. that's good! and you look better. somehow, it's as if your horse feels more at ease because you are minding YOUR business, and he's free to mind HIS business, and he likes that. even getting a bit lazy about it, but not resentful, not sucking back , not filling in for you. this is more of a partnership; each doing HIS/ HER part.
I love the way you keep trying with a positive attitude, inch by inch! cheers!