She said, "Well, what do you think the problem is here?" Then she said I'm too "wishy-washy" and that I have to "be one with the horse" and find that "anger" inside me so he'll obey. I know horses can tell when the rider is hesitant or scared and they'll take advantage of you...but it was only my second lesson!! Of course I'm going to be a little hesitant. What am I doing wrong? The horse obviously trusted the instructor, but not me.
Also, how long did it take everyone to figure out how to tack? My instructor got irritated with me yesterday because I didn't know how. It's a lot to remember very quickly!
Thanks everyone! :)