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post #41 of 44 Old 01-23-2012, 05:50 PM
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i read your other thread and this one but have not yet read the responses. so this will be long lol

i will make a short list that helps me teach my cousins who are from 3-15 yo

its purely games and rewards in a fun environment
rewards - being lead on trail ride, walking on loose lead/lunge line around cones/barrels, stars and a chart- whoever has the most stars at the end of the month can do something special with the pony... usually gets to put dye on the horse or i buy them a small gift like there own halter or something...

first lesson is always. grooming, leading, and having the child move the horse in all directions. that way they feel they are in control. (i am almost positive i read you did this in your previous thread)

second lesson involves them helping me tack up the pony - they must pick up and touch every piece of tack. while i ask questions like where does this go before i put it on, what is this called blah blah blah and then i put them on. i spend about 5 minutes leading them 2 steps and practicing stopping and releasing then continue until they get the hold of light hands... the first few times are a little a rough to watch :p
then we practice turns around barrels or cones (it gives them an object to focus on plus you can relate it to barrel racing.. :) any mention of racing usually gets a kid excited.

third lesson refresh stops and turns and work on lunge line. practice hands up for balance, touch the tail, touch the head touch...etc that way they have to focus on how they are sitting... i know this will probably get me negative points but when i notice them not paying attention i put the pony into a trot when there hands are up.. and when they get caught off guard and start to slide they grab the horn... thats when i tell them why they need to focus... its very easy to fall and get hurt.. usually once they realize that chance the hardway like that they stop...

eventually when they are comfortable by themself i have beanie bags on the barrels and make them walk the pony to barrel get beanie and bring it to another barrel or drop it in a bucket...etc.. and slowly work up from there...

hope it helps. what helps me even more is trying to act like a kid... it helps relate to them :) goodluck
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post #42 of 44 Old 01-23-2012, 06:06 PM
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Sounds to me like this girl isn't really into riding.
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post #43 of 44 Old 01-24-2012, 11:44 PM
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I think that perhaps she's too young or doesn't have the maturity/concentration levels to ride? I don't know her, so this is entirely just a guess, but that could be it.

I think that you should try giving her more time with her horse "saturday/sunday only when no family commitments" is precisely the recipe for an undedicated horseperson.

If at all possible, I'd recommend Pony Club! PC is a fantastic program and it's a great place to start. PC turns out well-rounded horsepeople and riders(: Also, remembering my 8-year-old days, maybe she needs to hear it from someone else? I hated listening to my mom, or any other family.

I'd definately go for Pony Club(:
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post #44 of 44 Old 01-25-2012, 12:29 AM
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I'm sorry I didn't read all the posts, so this may be redundant.

This girl is eight years old, right? Eight? She's just a little girl and hell, I'm a teenager and I have a horrid attention span as it is. I was even worse as an eight year old. I rode, I competed, but I was not ever there all the time. I hated warming my horse up at shows. The only thing I liked is showing off in the arena, then I was as good as done. I learned how to really, really engage myself later on. My interest grew the more fun it was for me.

Now, as I have started teaching little kids myself, I have to remember what it was like then. The terms "posture", "applied riding"....They mean nothing to a young girl.

Make it fun....Play some games, challenge to trotting over some poles for some candy or something. Throw some balls into the ring and play catch with her. Get a big horse ball and play soccer. Get on your horse and play tag. Race each other (put gait restrictions on it....) and most importantly, praise praise PRAISE! Remember that kids will rarely remember being praised, but they will almost always remember being scolded. Which means the more you scold, the more resentful and unhappy they will become. Reward what she does right instead of what she does wrong.

Here's a list of games I play with my girls -

Egg and Spoon -
Get a plastic spoon and some eggs. Challenge her to holding the egg while you give a list of commands. (This may be hard if the pony doesn't neck rein....So maybe not)

Tennis Ball Race -
Get a tennis ball/golf ball for her to hold in her hand. (She can hold the small ball AND the reins, it is possible) Set up three poles with a bucket at the end. Have her weave through the poles and drop the ball into the bucket, then turn around and weave back through. Body control!

Streamer Team Race -
This is a team thing...You could get some friends. You tie your stirrups together with cheap dollar store streamers, They break easily and won't get hung up if theres an accident. You each hold an end and have to stay next to each other, you drop one end and you lose the game. Have someone calling a list of commands. More body control this way.

Flag Race -
Like the gymkhana event. Set up some flags in two buckets. Have her pick up one, drop it in the end bucket and pick up that flag and go back and set it in that bucket. Fastest time wins! Teaches a lot of balance with the leaning off for the flag, and control to get that close.

Horse Soccer -
You can order big horse balls. My horses typically will kick the ball around, but you can get brooms to hit them with too...Set up poles or barrels or something at the end to make goals, and let 'er rip! This teaches them a lot about positioning the little pony.

Dollar Bill Race -
This one my girls LOVE. Typically we do this bareback, but it works with a saddle too. Place the dollar bill under her knee. Call out commands and if she can make it through a course (write one out beforehand) then she gets to keep the dollar bill. A lot of times you will see this race in groups of riders and the last one with their dollar bill wins all the dollars. (I've won a lot of money this way ;D) This will teach her to ride with her legs.

These are just some of them...You can always make up your own or google them for more information too. My girls really respond well to these because its fun for them, and secretly they're learning how to ride!

Pssh.I didn't pick up the wrong lead
It's called a counter canter...
...A very advanced maneuver.
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