How can a male get started on horse riding? - Page 19
 
 

       The Horse Forum > Riding Horses > Horse Riding

How can a male get started on horse riding?

This is a discussion on How can a male get started on horse riding? within the Horse Riding forums, part of the Riding Horses category

    Like Tree435Likes

     
    LinkBack Thread Tools
        06-16-2013, 12:56 AM
      #181
    Green Broke
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by futuredoctor    
    Basketball isn't super popular with gay individuals.

    How do you know???
         
    Sponsored Links
    Advertisement
     
        06-16-2013, 07:19 AM
      #182
    Banned
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by nvr2many    
    How do you know???
    Personal Experience. I have never known a gay basketball player.
         
        06-16-2013, 10:36 AM
      #183
    Started
    ^^^^^ How do you know?
    nvr2many likes this.
         
        06-16-2013, 11:24 AM
      #184
    Green Broke
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by futuredoctor    
    Personal Experience. I have never known a gay basketball player.
    Wow, you really have a closed mind and a warped view of the world!
         
        06-16-2013, 11:29 AM
      #185
    Green Broke
    "Jason Collins, Gay NBA Player, Marches In 2013 Boston Pride Parade With Joe Kennedy"

    "Jallen Messersmith Gay: Catholic College Student Believed To Be First Out Man In College Basketball"

    Just a couple that were brave enough to be who they are!
         
        06-16-2013, 11:31 AM
      #186
    Green Broke
    Gay is a sexuality. I am a lesbian and have many gay friends... Guess what, they play basketball, baseball, horseback ride, dance, body build, do amazing art, etc. Sexuality DOES NOT dictate what you hobbies are. There probably HAVE been gay people in the sports you play but closed minded people make them "stay in the closet" for fear of discrimination! Someone's sexuality is their business, just like your sexuality is YOUR business... No one else's!

    If you think every gay man is a flamboyant, hand flapping, highly well kempt, and lispy sounding you really need to broaden your horizons!!
    Posted via Mobile Device
         
        06-16-2013, 12:34 PM
      #187
    Yearling
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by SlideStop    
    Gay is a sexuality. I am a lesbian and have many gay friends... Guess what, they play basketball, baseball, horseback ride, dance, body build, do amazing art, etc. Sexuality DOES NOT dictate what you hobbies are. There probably HAVE been gay people in the sports you play but closed minded people make them "stay in the closet" for fear of discrimination! Someone's sexuality is their business, just like your sexuality is YOUR business... No one else's!

    If you think every gay man is a flamboyant, hand flapping, highly well kempt, and lispy sounding you really need to broaden your horizons!!
    Posted via Mobile Device
    Let me let you guys in on something. Many people of my high school class came out after high school, including my husband's best friend.

    Now, my husband's best friend is not anything like the stereotype that SlideStop put out there. He was athletic, in ROTC all those years, muscley, rough but cute kid, dated pretty much all the girls in ROTC....had sex with probably all of them and then some. I mean, his scoreboard puts my husband to serious shame. You would have never been able to point to him and say "omg he's gay!".

    13 years after HS, he is currently sporting tattoos, a bald shaved head and guns that again, put my husband to serious shame. He is ex Navy, which is possibly the only stereotypical thing you could find about this dude.

    Anyway, point being of all that, my husband, his best friend, had NO CLUE this guy liked other guys. ;) So you never know, and honestly, if it was me, you wouldn't be the first person I'd come out to either LOL. And oh, by the way, in ROTC we took part in sports like softball and basketball as well as the running etc for our PT days...

    In any case, if you think English riding style is "GAY" and that's your huge concern about riding English, then ride western.

    Better yet, get into some lessons and you will quickly find out that your sexuality and what people think about it is the very last thing you're thinking about while you are in the saddle.
         
        06-16-2013, 01:34 PM
      #188
    Yearling
    OP, if you're this insecure, then I worry about how you'll handle riding. You'll undoubtably fall off in front of people, get sneezed on, get sweaty, have helmet hair....you won't be looking like a model at all. If you can't fall and get up laughing, this probably isn't the sport for you. No one cares what you look like at the barn. Seriously. When I boarded, I rolled up in pajama pants, my boyfriends extra large hoodie, and cowboy boots to feed. I didn't even get a single second look. It's just how it goes.

    Heaven forbid you ever become a proud horse owner and have to master the skill of sheath cleaning.
    Posted via Mobile Device
    freia and wild old thing like this.
         
        06-16-2013, 01:46 PM
      #189
    Banned
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by nvr2many    
    Wow, you really have a closed mind and a warped view of the world!
    How is that so? I never said anything negative about gay people. My cousin's parents are gay and I have some friends who are gay. Most of the people I know who are openly gay generally are drawn towards other sports such as Football and Baseball. I do not personally know a single gay person who plays basketball. This is not an opinion. Please elaborate on how I have a "closed mind" and a "warped view of the world".
         
        06-16-2013, 02:11 PM
      #190
    Yearling
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by GamingGrrl    
    No one cares what you look like at the barn. Seriously. When I boarded, I rolled up in pajama pants, my boyfriends extra large hoodie, and cowboy boots to feed. I didn't even get a single second look. It's just how it goes.
    Obviously weren't enough heterosexual guys at your barn, then Personally, I find that look a lot more attractive than high heels and makeup applied with a trowel.
         

    Thread Tools

    Similar Threads
    Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
    howd you get started riding lasso Horse Riding 26 02-25-2013 07:22 PM
    Getting a two year old started on riding? Ladybug2001 Horse Training 23 02-04-2013 08:21 PM
    Ok post pictures of you when you first started riding. Buckcherry Horse Pictures 11 11-27-2010 11:59 PM
    Just started taking riding lessons.. AmberPick Horse Riding 13 09-29-2010 02:06 PM
    Will I ever learn English riding? Discouraged male.. JImmyG English Riding 23 06-14-2009 05:06 PM



    All times are GMT -4. The time now is 05:59 AM.


    Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.5
    Copyright ©2000 - 2014, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
    Search Engine Friendly URLs by vBSEO 3.6.0