Kudos to you Phantom. It is truly a rare thing to see someone your age willing to go to this extent for something you believe. I congratulate you, (and your parents
) for doing a great job. I will also say that that is the kind of BO and trainer we all hope to have for us, our horses and our kids.
Stand firm on your beliefs, and don't let her get to you. You know we are all here to support you if you need it. She is a spoiled brat, and it is really sad that from the sounds of it her parents are more willing to throw $$ at the issue than spend time and devotion it takes to really parent.
Again-pat yourself on the back. You did a great job.