I don't think there is such a thing as "you people." I say that because every rider out there can improve. We just like to pick a few "you people" that we want to replicate, surpass, or put up on a pedestal. You'll reach all of your goals soon enough. Don't let comparing yourself to others hold you back or slow your progress. Challenge yourself to surpass "those people." We were all afraid to canter once or trot a cross rail. Years from now, you'll look back on your journey and what you've accomplished. And hopefully, some other rider will look at you as a "you people" and you can inspire them to be their very best! :)
Strength is not defined by physical ability. It is determined by your actions and the compassion of your soul.