Originally Posted by Summerize
its less not getting along, we just need her to have a break though, her and I are really close and I've spent hours helping her, I am just at a loss
Maybe she just wants to take her time, not everyone has a really strong winning drive. From what I can tell from your posts, you guys just really aren't compatible, I think she'd be happy with a group that is more laid back where she can mozey at her own pace :)
This is my opinion though, hard for me to give solid advice without talking to both parties.