Originally Posted by foxtrotmom
nor do I want to cause a scene. What do I do at the next show and this is not resolved?
Why not? As Laurel Thatcher Ulrich said: Well-behaved women rarely make history
If it were me, every time he did it I would be calling him out on it every time
hollering from across the arena, "Is there a reason the rules do not apply to you? Or do you just make it a habbit to pick on girls smaller than you?"
If it were in a class and its affecting me and more horse poorly, I would say screw it! I would rather tell him to back off and get either a lower score and DQ'ed from the class, rather than to sit back and allow him to get away with it.
Silence is acceptence.